Ziggy McAllister

1970 - 1998
LocationWest Coltness, Wishaw, Lanarkshire
Age27 years
Cause of DeathNot Listed?
Date of Birth23/09/1970
Date of Death27/01/1998
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ZIGGY was a fun-loving, happy-go-lucky kinda guy and he loved Monty Python, especially THE LIFE OF
BRIAN. I have seen him in tears of laughter watching the video, and singing this song, so be
prepared for it....... It's Ziggy's kind of humour. (Many thanks to Maggie Barclay for adding the
song).

MY ZED, MY BEST FRIEND, MY ZIGGY ANGEL BABY, OH GOD, HOW I WISH YOU WERE HERE, MY BABY BOY, MY VERY
SOUL. YOU WERE MY HERO TOO, MY GORGEOUS BABY SONSHINE. THANK YOU FOR OUR LIFE TOGETHER, IT WAS
BEAUTIFUL TO HAVE YOU AS A DIAMOND SON, I WAS PRIVILEDGED. IT JUST DIDN'T LAST LONG ENOUGH.

Ziggy was an exceptionally loving, generous and caring person to anyone who ever met him. Anyone who
ever needed him, any time, any day, any problem, he was there. Nothing ever phased him, he helped
anyone who needed him, with love, care and time for any situation. He should have been nominated as
a Saint for what he did for me and his Beloved Grannie.

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ZIGGY McALLISTER was born after 83 HOURS of 'QUITE DIFFICULT' labour @ 7.20pm on 23 September 1970
in Motherwell Maternity, one month premature. He weighed 216 kilos,(4lbs 12oz), and was a tiny wee
boy. I was told he might not survive. Ziggy was a gorgeous wee thing, we were joined by more than
maternal love, we were soulmates.
Ziggy never knew he should have had a twin sister.
Caroline was given her wings in the 13th week of the pregnancy, which progressed till the 36th week
when I had my Ziggy. My mum was the surviving twin in her family, and she advised me not to let
Ziggy know about Caroline. (His dad didn't even know, as he didn't really care)!!! I did not need to
tell Ziggy about Caroline, he told me when he was only about 2 years old (in his squeaky wee baby
words) that he thought a bit of him was not there and it gave him a sore head.. My mum and I were
the only ones who knew what he meant. I'm sure he knew, that Caroline should have been there with
him.

Ziggy attended both St. Aidan's Primary & High Schools with his brother, Christopher Rooney, (also
deceased). Ziggy died at home @ 10.47pm on 27 Jan 1998. He was 27, and always lived at home with me,
his mam.

Ziggy suffered with Projectile Vomiting all his life, and although he usually managed to control it
when it happened, for some reason it took him after his supper that night.

He was watching TV with friends in his bedroom, when all of a sudden he dashed into the bathroom
clutching at his throat and collapsed. His friend alerted me to what he described as 'A funny turn'.
(Ziggy was born a funny turn)! He was lying on the bathroom floor with his feet jammed against the
door, and we couldn't get in to him. His friend phoned for an ambulance, meanwhile I managed to
squeeze in the gap in the door, but it was too late to do anything for him, and he simply passed
away.

2 Ambulances arrived within minutes, but he was already gone. Despite the dedication and effort of 4
Paramedics he could not be revived. They worked on him for a full hour, but he had asphyxiated on
his supper of spaghetti & toast! It had been inhaled due to the fact he simultaneously took a bout
of hiccoughs, and he could not breathe past the obstruction in his lungs. Nothing could have saved
him that night, and I felt so guilty, not being able to rescue my baby son from that hell of pain
and agony.

Ziggy was my best friend, my soulmate, we went everywhere together, and we knew what the other was
thinking just by a 'look'. He was a unique kinda guy, he scrutinised life through well filtered eyes
and stood no idiots in his way. He loved his family and friends, and was always there if you needed
him. The neighbours all knew they could rely on him to assist if they needed a helping hand with
anything.

Just before his 5th birthday I asked him what he would like as a present, he asked if he could have
a Tartan Budgie, as he was a Bay City Rollers Fan. When he was about 7 I asked what he wanted to be
when he left school. His answer, after a few minutes of deep thought, was "Either a Binman or a
Motherwell Supporter". Always easy pleased, that was Ziggy!!

I had 5 operations between 1990 & 1997 and Ziggy nursed me through the recovery of each one.
Without one single moan, groan or complaint, my boy did his best for me.

I was only Mam, but he did it for me. He cooked every meal I had and helped me to go for a shower
and wash my long hair. He wouldn't go out with his pals because it meant leaving me on my own. He
gave up on a lot of fun to be with me, and we grew even closer because of his dedication.

He also helped to look after his beloved Grannie, who had cancer and was housebound and eventually
bedbound. He gave up his job as a Security Guard and went to make her lunch every day, as I was at
work. He collected her pension, did her shopping, built the coal fire up and filled up the coal
buckets. He cleaned the windows, hung clean curtains, changed the bed-linen and did all he could to
make her cosy. She adored him. I will never forget the day Mum got a visit from her new Home-Help,
who had never met Ziggy. They met in the hallway, she nearly fainted at the sight of him! Who are
You, she asked, thinking he was some rogue in to rob Mum. More to the point, Who are You? he
replied. Ziggy, unlike his Designer Label brother Chris, looked like an Oxfam or Jumble Sale
Reject, with his tatty old biker's jacket, jeans with holes and patches everywhere, and big biker's
boots. Not the ideal picture of the grandson my mum talked about non-stop, or what the Home-Help had
imagined!!! But his Heart was Mega-sized, especially for his Grannie. xxx

Till the day he died, he was a home-loving type, he didn't drink or go out to pubs or clubs and was
happy on his Honda 250 or in his room watching tv or listening to his Heavy Metal tapes, at full
volume!

His room was an archive of all sorts of wonderful Ziggy-type inventions, Edward T. Head (Iron
Maiden) sculptures made of expanding foam, half a snooker cue to turn the tv off, cos he couldn't be
bothered moving to do it! He even had a headphone socket built into the base of his home-made King
Size bed because I complained of the windows rattling in the frames when he played his music! He had
11 speakers wired up in various parts of the house so his music followed him wherever he went, even
the bathroom and his bike shed.

The list of 'inventions' was a funny sight to see, not a day went past that he came up with some new
Ziggy-labour saving device! He even had corks around the skip of his baseball cap (like the Aussies)
to keep the midgies off when he went on jaunts down the woods behind our house. What a boy he was, I
could never keep up with his madness! I truly miss that madness, it's what kept me sane.

His hobbies were music, motorbikes, sketching, DIY inventions, his cats Herbie & Woodie and having
as much fun as he could squeeze into a day!

The engine of his beloved Honda CB 250 was still in his room months after he died, he had taken it
there because it was too cold (during Dec & Jan) to work on it in the shed he had built for it.

He was a fun-loving, laid-back guy, had a Wicked sense of humour, and loved a good joke. It's his
laid-back attitude and absolute love of life which I will never forget, he was so laid back he was
almost horizontal.

His brother Chris was murdered on 16 April 2008, (see also Christopher Rooney site on GTS). They ARE
full blood brothers, with the same parents, but Ziggy used my maiden name and not his own after his
16th birthday. I know my sons are together for all Eternity. R.I.P. MY BEAUTIFUL SONS. I WILL LOVE
AND MISS YOU TILL I JOIN YOU, AND THEN WE CAN HUG FOREVER.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx ZIGGY - DEARLY LOVED AND MISSED BY ALL
WHO KNEW HIM.

THANK YOU TO ALL MY GTS FRIENDS & RELATIVES WHO HAVE LIT CANDLES AND LEFT TRIBUTES AND GIFTS FOR
ZIGGY. IT MEANS SO MUCH TO KNOW YOU ALL CARE. I LOVE YOU ALL.


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☆ ♥ Happy Heavenly Birthday Ziggy ♥ ☆

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Have a wonderful day in paradise xxxx

Andrea Zigs Mam Xxx (Friend) September 23, 2009

♥~Happy Birthday Ziggy~♥


MAY THE WINDS OF LOVE BLOW SOFTLY

AND WHISPER SO YOU'LL HEAR

WE WILL ALWAYS LOVE AND MISS YOU

AND WISH THAT YOU WERE HERE

I WANT TO GIVE YOU WISHES

IN OUR HEARTS YOUR BIRTHDAY IS KEPT,

TO LOVE, TO CHERISH,

AND TO NEVER FORGET



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TO CELEBRATE THIS DAY

TO SHARE IN THIS OCCASION

YOUR HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY.




HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR ZIGGY

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU.


All my Love Gloria Anthony's Mom xoxo

Gloria Anthony'S Mom September 23, 2009

●♥● GOODNIGHT AND GOD BLESS. ●♥●

Sometimes when I'm very quiet
I can hear "The Flutter Of Your Wings"
The sound is like music to my ears
and it makes my heart sing.
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When loneliness and emptiness
bring not a sound to hear
You know exactly what I need
as you flutter past my ear.
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Sometimes when I'm very still
I can almost feel "The Flutter Of Your Wings"
Their feathery touch is like magic
and much peace and comfort it brings.
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When I am left with no one
to hug or hold on to
You gently wrap me in your wings
and your love I feel is true.
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Sometimes when I am all alone
and against the distant sky
I can almost see "The Flutter Of Your Wings"
It brings a tear of happiness to my eye.
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When I look around and find not a soul
who cares if I live or die
You flutter your wings up in the clouds
and I find comfort in the sky.
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You are my Guardian Angel
and when I hear, feel and see
This means you are close by my side
and are watching over me.
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Sometimes when I feel so alone
you remind me that I'm loved
My angel sent down from heaven
with much love from up above.
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The love and closeness I sense from you
is all the reassurance I need
That I am someone very special
and I will follow where you lead.

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Sue Kirby September 13, 2009

for ziggy x

THINKING OF YOU X

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there, I do not sleep
I am a 1,000 winds that blow
I am the diamond glints on snow
I am the sun on ripened grain
I am the gentle autumn rain
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled light
I am the soft star that shines at night
Do not stand at my grave and cry
I am not there; I did not die.


FROM CHER N JOHN XXXXX

Cheryl Daley (Friend) September 13, 2009

for ziggy x

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Cheryl Daley (Friend) August 25, 2009

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~ In My Mind (by Jenn Farrell) ~

Somewhere in my dreams tonight
I'll see you standing there,
You look at me with a smile
"Life isn't always fair."
You say you were chosen for His garden
His preciously hand picked bouquet,
"God really needed me
That's why I couldn't stay."
It's said to be that angels
Are sent from above,
I've always had my angel
Whose heart was filled with love.
Wherever the ocean meets the sky,
There will be memories of you and I.
When I look up at that sky so blue,
All I see are visions of you.

"While there's a heart in me, you'll be a part of me."
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Mel Xxxxx August 10, 2009

LOVE
IF LOVE COULD BRING YOU HOME AGAIN
YOU WOULD BE BY YOUR LOVED ONES SIDE
BECAUSE THERE HEARTS ARE BREAKING
FOR THE LOVE THEY HAVE INSIDE
THEY NEVER ASK FOR MUCH
ALL THEY WANT IS TO HOLD YOU
AND KEEP YOU BY THERE SIDE
BUT LIFE GOES ON WITHOUT YOU
IN OUR HEART YOU WILL STAY FOREVER
TILL THE DAY WE ARE TOGETHER
AND THEN THE TEARS WILL GO AWAY
XxXxXxX

Ness McLear (GTS Friend) August 6, 2009

✝•♥•✞•✝•♥•✞•✝•♥•✞•✝•♥•✞•✝•♥•✞•✝•♥•✞

♥ The Promise ♥
(by Diane Robertson)

Of angel wings and heavenly things
There’s very little known,
For those who have the answers
Are, forever, from us gone.
Life in the hereafter,
In faith, I must accept;
Thoughts that trouble not the people
With families still intact.
But, those of us who’ve travelled
Down the lonely path of grief,
Are forever seeking answers
To the riddle, which is life.
We trek through shadowed forests
Past the ugly shroud of death,
Toward a promise for the future
Of a kinder, better place.
So, we look to see the angel wings
And listen for the hymn
That God will send to guide us
When we leave to be with Him.

✝•♥•✞•✝•♥•✞•✝•♥•✞•✝•♥•✞•✝•♥•✞•✝•♥•✞

Mel Xxxxx August 5, 2009

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❁ The Tapestry of Life ❁
(Author Unknown)

"Tis said that old Time is a shuttle,
Swift weaving the web of our days;
In and out fly fast speeding moments
Thro' the warp and the wool of earth's maze.
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At times all the colors seem sombre,
Again there are dashes of bright;
Anon all life's threads knot and tangle,
And only defects meet our sight,
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Full often we stand and in wonder
We gaze at the unveiling loom,
Which hides the design of the fabric
Until we have reached the dark tomb.
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Only this do we know that the groundwork,
Thro' which the bright colors are twined,
Is woven of charity's fibers,
Which serve the threads closely to bind.
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And when the last thread has been broken,
And the loom is forever at rest,
We shall see that our life's great Designer,
Knew what for His children was best.

❤•❧•❣•♡•♥•❦•❥•❤•❧•❣•♡•♥•❦•❥•

Mel Xxxxx August 1, 2009

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♥ REMEMBERING ♥ (Author Unknown) ♥

♥ There will come a day
♥ when your tears of sorrow
♥ will softly flow into tears of remembrance...
♥ and your heart will begin to heal itself...
♥ and grieving will be interrupted by episodes of joy...
♥ and you will hear the whisper of hope.
♥ There will come a day
♥ when you will welcome the tears of remembrance...
♥ as a sunshower of the soul...
♥ a turning of the tide...
♥ a promise of peace.
♥ There will come a day when you will...
♥ risk loving...
♥ go on believing...
♥ and treasure the tears of remembering.

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*** Love to you and your Angel from Mel. ***

Mel Xxxxx July 27, 2009
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